{"id":821,"date":"2017-08-22T13:00:21","date_gmt":"2017-08-22T17:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/consistent-life.org\/blog\/?p=821"},"modified":"2017-08-22T15:06:15","modified_gmt":"2017-08-22T19:06:15","slug":"frustrations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/consistent-life.org\/blog\/index.php\/2017\/08\/22\/frustrations\/","title":{"rendered":"The Frustrations of Being a Consistent Life Activist"},"content":{"rendered":"

by Lisa Stiller<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Lisa Stiller at the post-Charlottesville rally<\/p><\/div>\n

I recently attended a rally in support of the people in Charlottesville, Virginia. The previous Saturday a “Unite the Right” rally protesting the removal of statues of Confederate figures had erupted into violence, as one participant plowed his car into a crowd of counter-protesters, killing one and injuring many. Many Confederate statues were raised in the early 20th century as explicit support of Jim Crow segregation laws and “white supremacy.”\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I wanted to be part of a gathering supporting love, respect, and dignity. That seems to me to be a pretty \u201cwhole life\u201d issue. Racism and bigotry are an especially insidious form of violence. We all know that racism motivates people to hurt and kill others, and it also does terrible psychological damage. Racism destroys the dignity and sanctity of the human person, injuring its perpetrators as well as its victims.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

But those of us who spend much of our time as activists speaking out for so many whole life issues such as health care and housing, and opposition to poverty, the death penalty, and war, find ourselves having to navigate a difficult path when other issues get thrown into the mix. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

This is what happened at the rally. Most of the speakers at a rally that had a compassionate, community-oriented tone stuck to the message of intolerance for racism and called on members of our community to support one another. A few people ventured to speak about the influence of unregulated capitalism on racism (and a case can be made for that, as it contributes to the economic inequality that largely targets minorities and women) and the need to support measures that protect human rights. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

But when a speaker got up and decided that not only was he going to recite the slogans on the \u201cresistance flag\u201d (pictured below) but have the crowd recite it back to him, I had a momentary feeling that I didn\u2019t belong in this crowd. Most of the flag\u2019s slogans are pretty much benign and support a whole life world view: \u201cAll People are Equal,\u201d \u201cBlack Lives Matter,\u201d \u201cImmigrants and Refugees are Welcome Here,\u201d and so on. But slogan number six is definitely not whole life: \u201cWomen Are in Charge of Their Bodies\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Bringing support for abortion into a rally addressing racism, bigotry, and intolerance is nothing short of an oxymoron. Supporting the right to take a human life while advocating the need to defend human life from the violence of racism is, to me, counterintuitive.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Also, consider the fact that a very <\/span>disproportionate number<\/a> of minority and low-income women have their unborn babies aborted. Also, <\/span>abortion clinics are most likely to be located in minority and poor neighborhoods<\/a>. It makes no sense to advocate for the protection of our most vulnerable people, such as low income people and racial minorities and people with disabilities, as well as Jewish and Muslim people who are also targets of hate groups, while affirming the right to kill unborn children, the most voiceless members of our society. And, as our friends at <\/span>Feminists for Life of America<\/a> remind us, in the process of taking the lives of unborn children, we are hurting women. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

So, as with other rallies and events I go to where I fully support the main issue, I have to find a way, when support for abortion is brought up, to remain \u201cpresent,\u201d put aside the seething anger, and acknowledge and let go of the discomfort. I have to carry on. And keep looking for ways to send a different message. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0The \u201cresistance flag\u201d at the rally. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"Our own yard sign, <\/span>available through Caf\u00e9 Press<\/a>, that those who wish to can use in similar locations to gently counter it. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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For more of our blog posts on Actions and Adventures, see:<\/span><\/p>\n

The Adventures of Organizing as a Consistent Lifer<\/a><\/p>\n

My Day at the Democratic National Convention<\/a><\/p>\n

Adventures as a Delegate to the Democratic Party Convention<\/a><\/p>\n

A Tale of Two Cruises<\/a><\/p>\n

The Marches of January (2017)<\/a><\/p>\n

Progressive Prolifers at the Progressive Magazine 100th Anniversary Celebration<\/a><\/p>\n

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See\u00a0the <\/span>list of all our blog posts<\/span><\/a>, put in categories.<\/span><\/p>\n

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by Lisa Stiller   I recently attended a rally in support of the people in Charlottesville, Virginia. The previous Saturday a “Unite the Right” rally protesting the removal of statues of Confederate figures had erupted into violence, as one participant plowed his car into a crowd of counter-protesters, killing one and injuring many. Many Confederate… <\/p>\n